Everything there is to know about being a remote working parent.

When most people think of working remotely, some stereotypical images pop into their head.

First, the #vanlife, touring-a-european-country, working-from-a-macbook-air-on-a-beach digital nomad.

Photo by Nick Dunlap on Unsplash

They get to work where they want, when they want, their only boundary is the horizon, they wake up every morning to the smell of the next big adventure, all while collecting a nice steady paycheck.

The second one is the worker chilling in a co-working space, surrounded by fellow remote workers, stopping their email to play a game of ping pong, swapping ideas, going out for lunch/happy hour and smiling the whole time.

Photo by Pejmon Hodaee on Unsplash

Then there’s the other stereotypes:

  • Coffee shop warriors
  • Basement hermits
  • Jetsetters
  • Full-Time Travel Blogger
  • 3rd world country writer
  • etc.

What doesn’t get talked about a lot is what it’s like being a work from home parent.

My glamorous desk (note the multi-vitamins)

I’ll go into more detail over the next few months, but for most remote parent workers, you work from a spare bedroom, trying to negotiate nap times, daycare runs, and kids running into your meetings. Occasionally you get to work from a car, maybe go to a coffee shop, but the majority of the time you’re in the same spot every time.

So why do it?

  • No commute.
  • You can go to vacation areas without taking vacation PTO.
  • Save on lunch and gas.
  • You can listen to your music as loud as your family will let you.
  • No one steals your lunch.
  • Your schedule is generally more flexible.
  • Your own fridge, bathroom and nap space for lunch.
  • Easier to focus (if you set yourself up right).
  • Your office is setup the way you want.
  • Your work tasks and home tasks can become melded together.
  • You can work while you’re sick (this is a pro and a con).
  • You can see your kids more than you would ever want.

For me, seeing my wife and kids (wife works from home too) whenever I want is absolutely the best thing about working from home. Also having quick access to my fridge, shower and bed.

After spending a lot of time in the remote working space, I’ve learned there’s some tips and tricks you should know if you want to work remotely.

  • Work for a 100% remote company if you can.
  • If you can’t, work for a company that’s in your area.
  • You need to be smart about a remote position interview, it’s not the same.
  • Always wear a shirt in front of a webcam.
  • Know your time zones.
  • You need a to-do list, or you will fail.
  • Communicate, communicate, communicate.
  • Make friends.
  • Know your boss so you can preemptively help them.
  • Be marketable.
  • Don’t eat a big lunch.
  • Prove your worth.
  • Maximize your time, so you can minimize your time.
  • Technical issues are a real issue, make your computer a priority.
  • Know how to work the webcam.
  • Profile pictures everywhere.
  • Get involved.
  • Have boundaries.
  • Know thyself.
  • Mute thyself.

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